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Competency 3: Treatment Strategies for Working with Clients with an FASD


Counseling Strategies, Continued

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Loss and Grieving

All individuals with an FASD have experienced losses in their lives. The fact that they are not like their peers is a loss of the ability to be like everyone else. Some have the loss of the hopes and dreams of what they wanted to be. Others lose their family or a secure future. Some lose the opportunity for meaningful peer relationships and friendships. Other losses can include9:

  • Continuity in caregivers due to multiple home placements
  • Vocational and educational opportunities
  • A role in the family and in society
  • Joy and pleasure in life

These losses can affect people in many ways and need to be addressed. The counselor can9:

  • Use active listening strategies, such as repeating what the person has said
  • Be honest
  • Raise awareness of experiences of separation and loss
  • Acknowledge losses experienced
  • Validate losses experienced
  • Avoid “good parent/bad parent” issues
  • Support confronting losses in a positive manner
  • Encourage communication
  • Genuinely care
  • Be there for support
  • Acknowledge his or her own feelings about loss
  • Refer for further treatment (e.g., mental health) when necessary

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